Sometimes, you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself.
Feeling stuck in life can lead to a boring existence, especially if you seem to have everything society says you need, and you’re only in your 20s. Despite having a well-paying job, a comfortable apartment, and a good social circle, you may feel unfulfilled and directionless. This is a common experience, especially among millennials, but it’s essential to recognize that it doesn’t have to be permanent, and you can lead a less boring life.
‘m always searching for ways to grow and evolve, whether it’s by entering my soft life era, trying to hack my happiness chemicals, or simply doing some self-care activities. Today, I want to explore some little daily actions you can take to break free from feeling stuck and create a more fulfilling and less boring life.
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If you have ever asked yourself why your life is so boring and lonely, why is life so boring and pointless, I’m here to tell you it doesn’t have to be. I know I was bored with life at 25 and since then I have managed to pull myself back up; if you are reading this, I wish these will help you out as well!
Dance under the rain
Have you ever considered dancing in the rain? It may seem a little silly at first, but it can actually make your life less boring and more exciting in so many ways! For starters, it lets you break free from your routine and try something new and different. Plus, it’s just so much fun!
Dancing in the rain can also help you connect with your emotions and express yourself in ways you may not have tried before. And did you know that it can actually promote creativity and spontaneity? That’s right! By coming up with moves on the spot and adapting to the changing conditions of the rain, you’ll be developing skills that can come in handy in other areas of your life. And let’s not forget the endorphins – dancing releases those feel-good chemicals that can help reduce stress and improve your mood. And let’s be honest, who doesn’t want to reproduce the scene from Step Up 2?
It might just be the refreshing and invigorating experience you need to feel more alive and energized. So go ahead, put on your favorite tunes, and dance like nobody’s watching!
Create a scrapbook diary
Collecting and organizing memories from your past allows you to create a tangible record of your experiences and adventures. This can help you realize how far you have come and can lead to a greater sense of gratitude and appreciation for the people and events in your life.
I also believe that any time you engage in artistic activities, it can remove all the boredom from your life.
It doesn’t even have to be a scrapbooking project; it can be a photo album if you are not too creative. You can even digitally customize it and have it printed and delivered right to your door.
Dress up and give yourself a little photoshoot
Like celebrities, you too can create a little photo shoot to express yourself. By dressing up in outfits that make you feel confident and glamorous, you can boost your self-esteem and feel like a star. We love to create themed dinners with my friends where we all dress up, cook themed food, and take pictures.
Taking the time to dress up and take photos can also be a great way to bond with friends or family members and do something you would not usually do. It’s so fun trying on different outfits and poses. You will create memories and strengthen your relationships. So why not give it a try? Dress up, strike a pose, and capture those memories for a lifetime. You’ll feel confident, creative, and connected with others in no time.
Go to a coffee shop and ask the barista to choose your drink
I took this advice from Tiktok; it was a fun and exciting way to add novelty to my daily routine. You never know, you might just discover your new favorite drink! Also, it’s the perfect occasion to strike up a conversation with the barista and learn more about their recommendations and expertise. This interaction adds some human connection to your day and helps you feel more engaged with your surroundings; also you get out of your comfort zone and try something you might not even know existed!
Plan a future vacation
I mean, a vacation is, by definition, the least boring thing that could happen in your life! Think about all the adventures, excitement, and discoveries that await. If done right, these will be the memories you will cherish for a lifetime and share with others at cocktail parties.
At every Christmas work party, a few people always seem to have fascinating stories to tell – like how they had a yoga session in Nepal, were chased by a turtle while snorkeling in Australia, or almost died while rafting in Alaska. And I can’t help but think, “These people have such amazing lives.”
Simply researching a new destination and learning about its culture and history can make your life less boring. And when you do have the money to travel, it can be an exhilarating and spontaneous adventure.
Go thrift shopping
Thrift stores can offer some of the most unique and interesting items out there that you might not find anywhere else. They can help you express your creativity and individuality. The same piece of clothing can be styled in so many different ways, and you can even rework the item if you have any sewing skills (which is a great skill to acquire if you ask me!).
Not only that, but thrift shopping can also be a great way to save money. I don’t know about you, but I can be very picky with what I wear, and what is sold in stores doesn’t always suit my style or beliefs. Thrift shopping often allows me to feel more confident and comfortable in what I’m wearing, as well as be more environmentally conscious by giving a second life to pre-loved items.
Dye your hair
Dyeing your hair can be an empowering experience to change your physical appearance to match your emotional state better. There is a reason people do it when they want to start a new phase of their life after a breakup or a career change, for example.
It can be as subtle or grandiose as you wish – it really is up to you! But the crazier you go, the less boring you will feel.
Go to an amusement park
There is nothing like riding these old rides to make your life less boring. The old-school feeling, the air filled with joy and excitement, the cute food booths selling everything from the cotton candy to popcorn and fries, the games to win a prize, and so much more.
It’s an excellent way to spend a summer evening with friends or family. Also, it’s the perfect setup to create a carnival-themed photoshoot.
Recreate old photos with childhood friends and family
Not only does it make your life less boring, but it also adds some joy and playfulness. This activity allows you to revisit your favorite childhood memories, a time when you didn’t have any responsibilities, heartbreak, or problems. Above all, it’s an opportunity to bond with your loved ones and get in touch with your creative side. Whether you’re feeling bored, nostalgic, or just looking for a creative outlet, recreating childhood pictures is the perfect activity to try out.
Learn to play an instrument
A fun and rewarding way to make your life less boring? Say no more! Learning to play an instrument could be just what you need! The satisfaction you get when you learn a new melody or when those around you recognize a piece you’re playing is out of this world.
Music has been known to improve productivity and mental health, especially classical music such as the piano. Playing the instrument yourself can have a huge impact on your stress level and overall mood. Plus, it makes for a great conversation starter over drinks with acquaintances. Have you seen those videos of people finding pianos in random places and playing them beautifully? That could be you! Then you can say you played piano for strangers in the middle of Italy!
Be a tourist in your own town
Chances are, you live in a very cool city and you don’t even know it! People often ask me what they can do in Montreal, and I always draw a blank due to my own lack of exploration in my hometown. Although I know there is so much to see and do, I have never taken the time to experience it on my own, which I totally should.
Create a bucket list
Whether it’s a travel bucket list or a seasonal bucket list, you need to create a list of things you wish to accomplish. It will give you a sense of direction and purpose to work toward something daily.
Not only that, if you aim for the moon and set goals that challenge you or require you to step outside of your routine, you can expand your horizons and discover new passions and interests.
Also, when you do accomplish a goal on your bucket list or even a New Year’s resolution, you will feel fulfilled and satisfied with your life overall, creating a cycle of accomplishment.
Pick up a new hobby
Picking up a new hobby can be a great way to add some excitement and spice to your life. First, you can explore new interests and challenge yourself. Second, you can break out of your daily routine and open yourself up to new experiences and opportunities. Lastly, you can meet new people and make new friends. Here are some ideas for hobbies you can try out:
- Painting classes
- Cooking classes
- Rock Climbing
- Ice skating
- Book club
- Dancing
- Volleyball
And so much more, the sky is the limit.
Investing in an activity that is not your work can reduce stress levels and improve your mental health.
Redecorate your room
Your living space is a reflection of your personality and what is happening in your mind. Redecorating your living space can reflect your current lifestyle and aspirations, making it a more suitable place for you.
Watch a sunset or sunrise
There is something magical about watching the colors of the sky change and feeling the stillness of the moment. It can help you slow down and appreciate the present moment. In our fast-paced society, it’s easy to get caught up in our lives and forget to take a moment to breathe and relax. By watching a sunrise or sunset, you can cultivate gratitude and optimism. Witnessing the beauty that surrounds you can give you a sense of perspective and appreciation for the smaller things in life. How can you feel bored after seeing all this beauty?
The reality is that if you are bored with life and wonder why life is boring, you should change some variables in your life. Change things up, get out of your comfort zone, and try something you have never done before. Anytime you feel like your life is boring, try to see what you have been doing recently that is not fulfilling you anymore. It’s easy to make life less boring if you are willing to make some changes! So if you are bored with life at 30 or bored with life at 40, don’t worry, it’s not too late to spice things up! It doesn’t have to cost much or take up all your time, just enough of a change that you will feel like you have been given a brand new life!
Until next time,
Sofyah,
